It’s not love. Lots of couples love each other and still fall apart. It’s not passion. That fades if you can’t work through conflict. It’s not compatibility. Every relationship will hit seasons where you feel out of sync. 💡The difference is this: couples who make it are willing to admit, “Maybe I’m part of the problem.” Instead of staying stuck in blame, they take responsibility for their side of the cycle. 👉 “I get defensive and shut you out.” 👉 “I criticize you when I’m feeling insecure.” �