Rebecca Dickinson on Instagram: "If you always change your plans to match theirs so you don’t miss time with them, it’s not because you’re just “flexible” or “easy-going.” It’s because somewhere along the way, you learned that being available was the way to feel secure in love. You’re scared that if you say no or stick to your own plans, they’ll pull away or choose something else over you. So you cancel, reschedule, and rearrange your life to make sure you’re always there when they want you. Thi