After Bryan Kohberger was sentenced for the Idaho murders of Ethan Chapin, Madison Mogen, Xana Kernodle and Kaylee Goncalves, the latter’s sister detailed his true demeanor in court.

She was strong. She was fair. She was tough. She was dedicated. She was beautiful. She was. She was and she is love,” her family shared in her obituary.

Now, Kaylee’s father said the family is grappling with the change and trying to move on. When the couple heard Kohberger admit to the killing of their daughter, it was hard to hear, and wished Kohberger would have had to “say the victims’ names,” Kristi Goncalves told the “Today” show.